Third letter to the Chinese student success

 Third letter to the Chinese student success, confidence, happiness Kai-fu Lee in May 2004 after me and the many Chinese students are focusing on how to achieve good communication and excellence, leadership and how to be launched. Recently, Sina chat rooms and I received many emails, I found more and more Chinese students need to know not how from good to great, but how to positive from confusion, from failure to success, from inferiority to self-confidence, from the melancholy to happiness, from fear to optimism. An extreme example is the February 2004 took place in Yunnan University Majiajue events. Majiajue brutally murdered his four classmates. But Ma Jiajue was arrested after the conversation with the psychologist to see , he should not be an evil person, but a lost, lack of self-confidence, character enclosed children. He and many college students, eager to know how to be successful, confident and happy. I This letter is addressed to those who want to succeed but that the success of reach, but always eager to self-pity self-confidence, desire happiness but I do not know why the matter of students happy to see. hope this letter will give the reader a new one on the definition of success, encouraging the reader and assured of their own and be a happy person. also hope that this letter will help readers understand the success, confidence, happiness is a virtuous circle: there can be confidence from the success and happiness can be obtained from the self-confidence in a happy and successful, from the joy in can be successful and confident. success is to be the best American writer William yourself. Faulkner said: people bear the brunt of the pursuit of wealth, all walks of life, the success of the evaluation of a person, more personal wealth as an indicator. But with the best results you will be able to contribute to society? have fame and fortune to some be happy? true success should be diversified. success may be that you have created new wealth or technology, may be brought happiness for others you may be on the job you get the trust of others, may also found the back of your self, inoffensive way of life. The success of each person is unique. So, Ling Zhijun in its ;. In other words, success is not to be compared with others, but to understand themselves, explore their goals and interests, efforts in pursuit of progress, so that my every day better than yesterday. successful first step: to grasp goal in life to do an active chat room in Sina, when friends ask what my purpose in life,UGG boots cheap, I was so answered: impact), to help themselves, help families, help the country to help the world and help future generations, allowing them to enjoy better, more efficient, can bring them happiness and joy. did not think, because I put the sophomore from help me solve the problem of work and life. I had to give up work in the United States and moved to China was founded Microsoft Research China, it is because I feel that the latter have a greater influence of work, and my goal in life is more consistent . In addition, when I received a letter from the students lost letters, write them a letter, I would think: Student's letter so, I am the person that is the greatest meaning of life in the end I think what is the purpose? hh things in the future, at this moment I see, I was wrong. In fact, the meaning of life is that there really is. If Majiajue can realize their goals in life a few months earlier, he would ask yourself before anything silly, and full of love of parents, sister, how would think of this? so, he may not go astray out. So whether it is for the truth, in order to influence, or for pleasure, family, morality, tranquility, knowledge, innovation hh Once the goals in life, you can target,UGG boots clearance, like me, under the guidance of life, decisively and make major life decision. each goal in life is unique. The most important thing is, you have to take the initiative to take their own life goals. but you should not be rushed, not in pursuit of so-called determine their own goals. So, how to find your goal? many of my classmates asked me what their goals that? I can not answer, because only one person can tell what your goal in life, that person is yourself. only one place you can find your target, that is your heart. I suggest you close your eyes, the first one comes in your mind the ideal record, as the answer without thinking is the most sincere. Or, you can look back, in your happiest, most rewarding of life is, is there something in common? they are probably the most motivating your life goal. Furthermore, you can imagine, after fifteen years When you reach the perfect state of life, what kind of environment you will be in? what kind of work? One of the most fun thing is what? Of course, you may wish to talk about family and friends, listen to their views. success The second step: to try new areas to explore your interests in order to become your own best, the most important thing is to play to their full potential, pursue the most interesting and the most passionate thing. When you find a field interested in, you will walk to class or taking a bath when they never forget it, you're in the area easier to succeed. Furthermore, if you have passion in this area, you may neither eat nor sleep for it, even when sleeping think of an idea will jump up. this time, you are no longer working for success, but to interest in all matters of duplication of efforts, there may be nothing.