Sexual Harassment 1

 In my life, sexual harassment seems to have been associated with in my left and right, let me know what to do, let me miserable. Most of the time it will affect my studies, work and life.
Remember the first feeling from the opposite sex When interference is very small, less than eleven years old then his.
handsome neighbor have a physical education teacher, he married a particularly beautiful, the wife of the work in the Song and Dance Troupe. Every night they husband and wife are in their own home to open a small concert, Fraser's wife singing, dancing and singing is very romantic, has become a nightly staple of our household a required course.
I like the wife, that she is so graceful, so talented, my idols. they are husband and wife are also very clever like my long, beautiful, well-behaved, pleasant little girl. I became a frequent visitor to their house. sometimes sing and dance with them Sometimes the wife will use her cosmetics and clothes to dress me up, let me put on her handbag, put on her high heels, looked at me like a little woman as in their eyes and turn , we will be very happy.
One day, when I went to the wife was not home, only in the physical education teacher. He warmly welcomed me as usual, the door, give me candy apples, do not make me feel what is the same. not for a while, he came into his pick up my leg, I am a little uncomfortable. when he said face my parents love me, I had the feeling that something was different. When I see His eyes, they find that usually smiling, and good eyes, into a pair of red eyes, congestion, with a look at me I do not know. I was afraid, and break open his arms and ran back home . did not dare say to anyone. but then I no longer dare to go alone to his home. Years later, when I grow up, I think of this matter, they would understand this is one time I suffered harassment.
As I grew older, into middle school, I always will be chasing boys say vulgar words, or a love letter to me; the windows of our house on the front desk will suddenly emerge often looked to the inside face of a ; class turned to the front of the boys will not see the blackboard and stared at me, wink at me; the same table the boys are also often on hand to touch my hand on the desk or bench. how the teacher reprimanded, I have How angry to no avail, they still go its own way. To this end the provisions of my father gave me a series of rest system: class home on time, time on the toilet, etc., and not allowed to go out alone, watching movies and parents together must not participating schools and classes of recreational activities, not allowed to photograph and so on. to me like only the Canary called equally confined. to this day they still have this habit, I would say in all social activities, and specified time.
17 years old, I entered the college in the sophomore year, we changed a grade counselor, is a graduate student just graduated. He is a native of Sichuan, although not tall, but handsome, pale skin, is a standard The Naiyouxiaosheng. We also learned from him that he had married his wife in Japan, PhD. because of course put it well, and sing and dance, we all liked him very much. began to greet us he often went to his dorm to eat and chat. But gradually, as he often counselors talk to me alone, says some puppy love the bad start, but did not take long to turn advised me to be pragmatic, not ill-treat their own, to grasp his beautiful resources, etc., on my hands and feet. and always asked me to go to the movies alone, go to dinner. I took his words relayed to my lover, he angrily scolded him in the dormitory is not something evil intents. some students to He reported our actions, since we became the object of his attacks and reprisals. Soon, because of an error, my lover was expelled from school. But the teacher because of his unethical behavior, in the soon to be We grade students came to light a joint letter to the department, listing the dozens of his violation of ethics act. the department has done has had to cancel his deal with qualified instructors.
to my junior year, when half of the semester, I encountered the same problem. He is a professional course of teacher to teach us, usually humble man, a good President. though tall, but always listen to the students that he was henpecked. For people like my patients to have compassion, because My father is a henpecked. Because of his good character, students sometimes do not prefect his class discipline, he never gets angry. but I do not want this, I think we can not bully an honest man, so I His class is always the most diligent student. but the good impression almost killed me.
day of final exams approaching, I passed the front of the building department office, met him. he asked me for his team to and performances of his house to take a few votes, I readily agreed. into the department office to his home in the upstairs room, he was warmly greeted me to sit and drink from the refrigerator out to drink, and also asked me with concern for his readiness to teach the course test. I said a little nervous, afraid failing standards. He said as long as the right action, and technology is not a problem, and asked me to do a hand movement. I requested a few gestures, he caught my hands were pointing to me. not to make a few moves, I feel my hand tighter and tighter, so I looked up and looked, I saw a pair of bloodshot eyes before I come from a panic reaction I have been thrown into his Zhuaiqi not far from the bed and pressed up. I cried out loudly, told him the following is the department office, if he still refuses to let me go, I will let people hear the whole building . so he loosened the slightest, and I pushed him to run out.
back to my dorm angry, afraid, shocked and offended grievances, but did not dare say to anyone, for fear he will give me the trip test, let me through. I cried all night, my boyfriend wrote to tell my grievance. people do not dare to ask the same quarters why I just thought I want a boyfriend. The next day I first entered the red-eyes classroom, to find my squad leader, said the teacher to find you something X, so you go to visit his home, said his house you know. I was angry and, I thought you spare me! no class, I feel back bag for dorm, but met him on the road. He did not like what happened to call me: find me? I was ready to buy fish, do you want to fish it. I gruffly replied: What do you find me? What I do not eat fish! he did not care, still laughs and says: do not eat does not matter to me Jia Zuozuo it. I said: do not. He said: I want to say understand what happened yesterday. go, people look bad here. to see students coming and going around the strange look, I was also very uncomfortable, afraid of my examination of the issue, thinking to make it clear that Ye Hao . So, and he went to his house.
sat down to begin his sincere apology to me, and said yesterday could not help a bit, some drooling. He just see me so little outside reading is not easy, yet so thin, imagine a big brother to help me take care of me, give me a few tons delicious. I'm honestly say that I forgive him, and also thank him for his kindness. When I got up to the door ready to open the door, he caught me and dragged me to the bed, his mouth spoke like me, that I am not a boyfriend, he wanted to accompany me .... and I hate, and in the moment down on the bed with both feet hard guess to his stomach, so the time while he hid out the door. Then I said one of my boys the matter, he said he would go to teach him a lesson. do not know how he do, anyway goodbye to the teacher when he was very careful examination I have not been any impact.